Cold Feet

VIOLA

Cold feet.

No, I don’t mean cold feet as in the kind you get from being out in the cold or swimming in water that’s too cold or simply not dressing warm enough.

I mean the other kind of cold feet.

The worst kind.

The kind that some women, and to a lesser extent, some men get just before their wedding. Yes, that kind.

My biggest pet hate. Why? Because in my line of work, they can ruin everything.

What is my line of work?

I’m a wedding planner. Any wedding planner hates and fears cold feet. They can derail everything. The whole day. Ruin you financially and possibly your reputation too.

I’ve been in this game a long time though and I’ve learned the hard way. When you’ve had enough cancellations because of cold feet you become hard. It becomes a matter of survival as well as doing what you love.

I now insist on non-refundable deposits from clients. They sign a contract when they hire me and they accept that they will lose their hard-earned money if they dare cancel. The deposit covers the location rental, decorations, cakes, caterers, furniture and marquee, photographer, band, and absolutely everything I need to cover.

I’ve gone a step further with my service. I include a counselor who provides last-minute counseling if the bride or the groom gets cold feet. They don’t know the person they’re speaking to is a counselor if I send them in. The counselor works the magic they need to, to keep the show on the road.

I’m the best. Not just as far as clients are concerned but also as far as my suppliers are concerned. They know they’ll get paid even if the show doesn’t go on.

I’m inundated with clients and they even delay their weddings just so I can be the wedding planner. I’m not boasting, just saying how it is.

For me, it’s not about the business aspect. There’s something about seeing a couple walk down the aisle to that moment in time when they will commit to each other before God and everyone present. Seeing the love and caring in their eyes and their kiss and the celebrations that follow. I love it. I love to see a couple in love and happy. That’s why I do it. I help couples make a dream come true with their wedding day.

But right now, I’m waiting with bated breath. It’s early Saturday afternoon.

groom is waiting in church and the bride hasn’t even left her home yet. The counselor is

lose the first wedding I’ve lost in ages. I am seeing my record run of talking brides and grooms out of

with bated breath for the

bride is

of relief. I

had cold feet is always told what to say beforehand. As far as possible, no-one wants to admit they had cold feet on their

out and the organ starts playing as she enters the church with the flower girls and

that well because of the veil. I hope the bride is giving none of

worries me that she might still at this stage back out but thankfully she doesn’t. I say another prayer of thanks when she says

couple exit the church. Guests and well-wishers sprinkle confetti and smile as the couple walks down the church steps and climbs into

a hitch. The couple will do their photos just before the reception so

I turn to reenter the church, I notice him for the first time.

but not military style. His blue eyes sparkle and his strong jaw is perfectly proportioned. White teeth

think as I take him in. He’s looking at the newly married couple but must feel my eyes on him because he turns and our eyes meet for the briefest of moments.

see that he was with someone and I wonder where his partner is. Surely, he

I wait until the couple is heading

eat lunch. In my business, I have a lot of contacts. One of them is a caterer I use regularly for food for the team. They’re not expensive and the food is always good. They also know what food is needed for every team member so I don’t have to worry that someone might get the order wrong. It just makes everything so much easier.

no distractions. We can focus on what needs to be done and adapt our plan any way

will play in the reception. The photographer is the only one

and will head to the reception location after lunch to begin setting up and testing their

one by one as the team members confirm that their

Band. Check. Decorations. Check. Flowers. Check. MC. Check. The list goes on and each item is

finish the checklist and everyone

never expect her to stay around after the wedding. Her job is pretty much done after the couple has

embrace her. We have worked together for a

great job as usual,” I smile when we end our embrace and I look

team quickly and then back at me. “Can we speak